From Psychology Today:
"All of us--on occasion, at least--overreact to the small stuff, often without even realizing it. If you find yourself getting overly angry, upset or defensive over little things, take comfort in knowing that there are actions you can take to more effectively manage your emotions. ...Allowing ourselves to acknowledge annoying predicaments and then find constructive ways to express and deal with them serves us much better in the long run. ...It isn't necessarily good for us to sweat all the small stuff and hype ourselves into overreaction every time we get upset."
In other words: Don't sweat the small stuff! Instead take a deep breath and be thankful that you are not dealing with natural disasters such as floods, fires, hurricanes, child or adult physical abuse or sexual abuse, addictions, tornadoes, or serious crimes. No one worries about the small things when searching for loved ones after destruction occurs. It becomes a celebration of life and an opportunity to join together to assist each other until life becomes routine or predictable again. Appreciate the small, mundane annoyances that are a part of life but not a focus of life. A sense of humor can make our burdens seem lighter and in perspective! Smile and create laugh lines instead of frown crevices!
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